You're going through life lessons, and you're also helping other's go through their life lessons. How you handle those lesson's is what defines you, not the lesson itself. So take pride in the low moments and handle them with care, integrity, and with an open heart, and embrace all that life has to offer - the good and the bad. As I always tell people... "You can't embrace the light, without respecting the dark." Think about that for a minute, because they both work hand in hand, and both have beneficial results that help us through life. Every experience that we go through, good and bad, teaches us lessons. How to be humble, how to forgive, have compassion, respect, patience, love, acceptance, etc., and they all make us stronger and evolve into better people. This is why we go through highs and lows in life. No one is a victim, we're just living a human experience. So please, don't let anyone take your power away or devalue what you're going through. You're evolving through the hard times, and will be a better person for it.